I took Mallory to school today and while she was switching from her boots to her shoes Maxwell asked if he could “peek in her room”. I said, oh yes… go peek and see what the kids are doing.
Mallory is all dressed and runs into her room and her teacher is standing in the door and Max is peeking around the corner watching the kids.
Her teacher says… is it okay for Mallory to make a Santa puppet today?
I say… of course. that is fine.
Then I stop and think… why is she asking me this? Has Mallory said something?!! We don’t do Santa at our house. I grew up with Santa, but Jesse did not grow up with Santa. We decided we wanted the focus to be more on Jesus’s birthday – not Santa. And besides we wanted the credit for the cool presents not Santa! ; ) Anyway. We have never really talked to her about it. We just don’t bring up Santa a whole lot. We don’t watch Santa shows. We don’t read Santa books. But now that she is older and in school and pays attention to things… she sees Santa and hears Santa everywhere!
One night she was watching her favorite show, Doc McStuffins, and it was a Santa episode. I just let her watch it. Jesse came in when it was just about done and when it ended he said, “Mallory is Santa real?” Her response was, “I don’t know.” I can’t remember what Jesse told her, but I think he told her he was just fake. She never asked any other questions about it or mentioned it again.
It clicks in my head that Mallory MUST have said something at school for her teacher to be asking me if it is okay if she makes a Santa puppet!! Oh heavens!
I look at her teacher with huge eyes, I am sure, and said… She said something!!!
Her teacher laughs and says yeah she did.
OH NO!!!!
Her teacher said it turned into this little 4-year old debate one day. I don’t remember what Mallory said but another little girl said “Yeah, it is about God’s birthday!” and Mallory says “NO! It is Jesus’s birthday!”
I think her teacher could see in my face that I was worried our little 4-year old was crushing all these kids “santa dreams” because she told me… don’t worry about it! At this age it all goes over their heads and they just keep working on what they are working on.
I get home and I send an email to Jesse and tell him this and he responds back… That’s my girl!
Which makes me giggle… yet not.
This girl is so her Dad and she is for sure going to be setting all these kids straight. Thank goodness she doesn’t ride the bus! Isn’t that where everyone learns about the “real Santa”?!!